Who likes to walk alone in life! I wonder is there something called relationship? or may be they are mere our need. Need to stay happy, a need that someone listens to us, a need to go out, a need of a shoulder to cry upon, a need to let our sorrows out, a need to get our need, a need of having someone! The one who fits into any of these is the one who becomes a friend. You would surely say "No" and some would say "Not always".....So would i say "Not always"..... At times its selfless....when we are actually more bothered about the other than self. But heart breaks when we are not even the option of the one who is our priority.. We complain where we went wrong and what else could we have done!!!! You would agree... But whatever you did, dont you think you did because you needed that person to be happy, as thats what makes you happy!!!! We all desire for that one selfless person...But the tears spent on them, are they even worth?? I definitely agree "Be tough to self..... life becomes easy".. There are some great lessons learnt in life :
1) Trust a friend 99% but not 100%. That 0.1% matters!
2) Love someone 100% but dont add even an extra 0.1% to that. That 0.1% makes a difference.
3) Never believe words, let action speak.
4) Let people come and go at the right time. Dont bind anyone, all want to be free.
5) Never reach a stage where emotions rule you.
6)Do 100%, dont expect back even 1%. What gives you comfort is you are not the one who screwed it up.
7)With time the above funda changed ." Do 100%, only when you know you will get back 90%.
8) Never wait, time moves, move along. Be the one who takes decision, it hurts less.
9) Whatever happens, happens for good. Leave it on time.
10) Dont wait to see what the other thinks, what they feel. Make your decision and move on.
11)Last....... but which took me 23 years to conclude :
"Every Question doesnt have an Answer!"
Its not bad to be selfish when you are doing it to keep your self happy.
Because your one smile might just make a difference in some one else's life.
There is always that one person in everyone's life. Some see them some dont!!!!
1) Trust a friend 99% but not 100%. That 0.1% matters!
2) Love someone 100% but dont add even an extra 0.1% to that. That 0.1% makes a difference.
3) Never believe words, let action speak.
4) Let people come and go at the right time. Dont bind anyone, all want to be free.
5) Never reach a stage where emotions rule you.
6)Do 100%, dont expect back even 1%. What gives you comfort is you are not the one who screwed it up.
7)With time the above funda changed ." Do 100%, only when you know you will get back 90%.
8) Never wait, time moves, move along. Be the one who takes decision, it hurts less.
9) Whatever happens, happens for good. Leave it on time.
10) Dont wait to see what the other thinks, what they feel. Make your decision and move on.
11)Last....... but which took me 23 years to conclude :
"Every Question doesnt have an Answer!"
Its not bad to be selfish when you are doing it to keep your self happy.
Because your one smile might just make a difference in some one else's life.
There is always that one person in everyone's life. Some see them some dont!!!!
5 comments:
Amazing revelations!!!
I agree with your views...but the irony lies in the fact that at different points of time we need different types of friends.. sometimes we may need the selfless ones for ourselves while at others we may want to be in that place.. unfortunately we let friends belonging to other category let go..
another fact as u correctly mentioned is that we are not even options for those whom we care the most..and yea it hurts like mad..
i wonder what would to do when such person acknowledges your love coz chances are you would hv just moved on...would u like to ride that emotional roller coaster again or hurt the one u cared for the most..
as for ur last comment...every question needs to have an answer..if it doesnt have it is not answer but a fact to be accepted...
correction in that last line..
if it doesnt have an answer..it is not a question but a fact to be accepted..
Ravi, its sad.....I learnt all the above fundas with experience and again when I met The Man, I forgot all
Well, again a beautiful piece of your creativity.. It's really difficult to find selfless people these days.. Each one of them come with their own motive some or other way.. All I can say is Love is just a word.. Actions prove how much you mean it..
Pooja, I dont knw but I find myself often failing to understand people.... The other word to relationships these days is Need..... We need to be very careful, be hard on us to avoid getting hurt....
I totally agree with you
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