Lessons of Life....

Who likes to walk alone in life! I wonder is there something called relationship? or may be they are mere our need. Need to stay happy, a need that someone listens to us, a need to go out, a need of a shoulder to cry upon, a need to let our sorrows out, a need to get our need, a need of having someone! The one who fits into any of these is the one who becomes a friend. You would surely say "No" and some would say "Not always".....So would i say "Not always"..... At times its selfless....when we are actually more bothered about the other than self. But heart breaks when we are not even the option of the one who is our priority.. We complain where we went wrong and what else could we have done!!!! You would agree... But whatever you did, dont you think you did because you needed that person to be happy, as thats what makes you happy!!!! We all desire for that one selfless person...But the tears spent on them, are they even worth?? I definitely agree "Be tough to self..... life becomes easy".. There are some great lessons learnt in life :

1) Trust a friend 99% but not 100%. That 0.1% matters!
2) Love someone 100% but dont add even an extra 0.1% to that. That 0.1% makes a difference.
3) Never believe words, let action speak.
4) Let people come and go at the right time. Dont bind anyone, all want to be free.
5) Never reach a stage where emotions rule you.
6)Do 100%, dont expect back even 1%. What gives you comfort is you are not the one who screwed it up.
7)With time the above funda changed ." Do 100%, only when you know you will get back 90%.
8) Never wait, time moves, move along. Be the one who takes decision, it hurts less.
9) Whatever happens, happens for good. Leave it on time.
10) Dont wait to see what the other thinks, what they feel. Make your decision and move on.
11)Last....... but which took me 23 years to conclude :
"Every Question doesnt have an Answer!"

Its not bad to be selfish when you are doing it to keep your self happy.
Because your one smile might just make a difference in some one else's life.
There is always that one person in everyone's life. Some see them some dont!!!!

My first blog

Why did i blog? Would say as usual friends are the reason for it. Not that they inspired me to pen down my thoughts but rather got inspired of their thoughts which I happen to come across.

I realised a beautiful thing, I now know them better, their inner thoughts, which may be they would never share...due to the fact that not all appreciate that! I realised i had stopped thinking about almost 99% of the things in my life,was doing things which came with the flow of life. But just one life, is it even worth living like that?

 I am not so busy, as its said "I am so busy driving that I don't stop for petrol"... We don't even spend time with self, thinking process had got a back seat in my life, was kinda afraid that it might just screw up my brain...But a life worth thinking about is worth writing about.

Not that I ask people to read this and understand me, but may be they will know me better..To say and to see the world walks with me, but to ask me I walk with the few good old memories and thoughts in my heart...

This is the world of survival of the fittest, Darwin's theory. Who lived some thousand years back...but the theory is more and more apt as and when future starts becoming our present.I wished to stand like a wall, like the Mount Everest, untouched by anything that hits on.... Like the ancient kings, who make a huge wall to protect their kingdom, we do it to protect our inner self, the heart that feels...

Often friends say they are very emotional (as am a person who is emotional only to the extent of 5% out of all the emotions..hehehe), as it ruins their life in many angles. To be frank, so was i few years back, few laughed at that, few never respected that, few said a waste to discuss it and few asked me to change the topic....Slowly i felt like that ancient king.....

Often we have so many unresolved questions in our mind, maximum relating to others. Those unresolved questions are like locked rooms, books in some foreign language, perhaps gradually , without even noticing it, we might find ourselves experiencing it, some distant day...

I believe people come for a reason, season or a life time and you should let them go at the right time...The day you can even make someone smile and the reason being you, i say the day was worth living....Okie..i guess that's what i think often......Shall think of some real happening stuff to pen down next i blog..Signing off as of now....